My dear, mine came out as a lesbian. What cannwe do? Let us thank God it was not that they are battling a terminal illness like cancer. I know how you feel, it feels like God is punishing us and you start looking back and wondering if it is because hou allowed them do this or do that. Their lives are going to be so much mire difficult with this sort of baggage and so they will need us more now than they imagine because beneath that tough exterior, they are just scared little girls that feel different from others. E-Hugs from your fellow desperately sad mum. Lots of prayers that they change their minds at some point in the future, but if they don’t, they are still those little girls we carried in our tummies and loved like mad!!!