Entrepreneur and Pastor Laurie Idahosa has motioned that a person telling their partner where they are and who they’re with is not a sign of being controlled but of showing respect.

She took to her IG page recently to share a text image and in her caption, she says if one is fighting the idea of being accountable then such person has to re-examine why they’re with their partner.

The image text reads,

Telling your partner where you are, who you are with, what time are you coming home is not being controlled, it’s showing RESPECT.

She captioned the text image,

Pay attention to the person / people that you naturally want to update regularly. They are your person / people.

If you’re in a relationship and you are fighting with the idea of being accountable, you probably need to re-examine why you are still with that person.

When a user asked about a case where the other partner obsessively asked about their partner’s whereabouts, she responded,